Delayed Mourning...
Posted 01-23-2009 at 10:00 PM by PretzelSouls
Generally I cope with death of friends and family well, but for some reason I'm having a hard time dealing with the passing of my great Aunt. She passed away about 3 years ago, but I can't seem to get over it. While at the mall today I saw so many things that reminded me of her and then smelled a perfume that had almost the exact scent as her small apartment in LA. I hadn't really had this hard of a time dealing with this ever since her funeral, I think the death of Alan (the micechatter) just pushed me over the edge. He was such a wonderful person who I was able to talk to anytime. This has got to stop, I can't live like this. The pain is just sharp. Even at work the patterns in witch do things are a little less cheerful. I think I'm done, for now.
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I hope that your pain will lessen and that in time you will be able to come to terms with your Aunt and friends passing.
Death and letting go is something that I find very difficult... and not to sound cliche but time will heal this wound and then we will have all the wonderful memories to guide us through our lives.
Posted 01-24-2009 at 01:58 AM by haunted_hottie
- i think that sometimes the pain of memories or familiar smells etc are the only way we have of feeling the love for someone who has passed away and those moments are like telling them that you still love them very much...try to work towards these things "warming your heart and bringing you a smile". no, its not easy but eventually you'll feel good again...been there myself, i understand. pamPosted 01-25-2009 at 01:12 PM by dizzygrl
