This is starting to happen too many times. I've played with people who are losing and they decide to leave. I beg and plead for them to stay because I want to win the crate - with 20 seconds left, they exit the game. If you join a game - stay for it!! (unless the dreaded DC happens)
Also, if you shake the coffin - that's your ghost. Doesn't that make sense?
Third, if you are both good and able players, don't be a ghost hog. I always try to stay upstairs if the other goes down. But, it there aren't any ghosts, I will go downstairs. Be understanding and don't yell at the other player for invading your territory.
Okay, there's my rant for the day. Thanks for listening