Why do these guys keep picking on me...

[VMKPrincess]

Ugh. Heres my story, it's not about vmk but i still feel nice around you micechatters in vmk

Heres the names, but i don't want you to know the real people
Kevin- my friend
Tyler- the meanie
Ashlen- me, duh!!

Me and kevin.... enter the library

Kevin: hahahaha i gave you an exploded pen
Ashlen: - sticks tounge out -

tyler walks in...
Tyler: are you guys like going out?
Kevin: have you ever heard of talking...
Ashlen: go away Tyler, your soo annoying!!
Tyler: you know whats annoying? You too flirting.
Ashlen: ooooh mmyy goddd!!!
Kevin: omg!
Ashlen: go away
Tyler: stop flirting


on the bus today... Ashlen, tyler, Ben, Cody, and Mike are all on the bus
All the guys: your going out with Kevin!!! your going out with Kevin!!!
Ashlen: - screams to the top of her lungs - NOOOOOOOOOOOOo i'm not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That went on... the whole entire bus ride which was like a half an hour...

So my questions to all these guys here on micechat. why do guys do this to someone and would you have done this. and to the girls, how do you feel this is just mean!!

[Snappi]

I get this also from one of these kids in my 6th period. Just because my guy friend is smaller (stature) and I'm tall, he doesn't like to get all those big kids picking on him. So, well, I have him in my 5th period so we just go together..and then everytime the kid - let's just call him D - sees us walking up the stairs he's like, "You two are like, in love, man."

It's just annoying...

[VMKPrincess]

totally with you there. "Kevin" and i are in the last 3 classes together, we just sit there and goof off, what's wrong with that? I just don't get it.

[Snappi]

I just think people can't just be "friends" anymore 0_o...messed up

[FallOut]

That sucks. Everyone thinks Im going out with my guy friend, because we've been friends since we were 4.

[VMKPrincess]

that's a long time! I've known my best friend, my neighbor (not "kevin") for almost 13 years.

[FallOut]

Everyone says I like him, but I dont and Im like, "You guys are so retarded, we're just friends."
And they'll be like. "Sure, yeah, of course."
And Ill be like, "Im not kidding. Besides, I like someone else."
Then he bugs me on msn, "Who do you like, who do you like" and im like, "shut thy trap, im not going to tell you."

[wookiegirl]

yeah, this reminds me of me and my best friend jarrett last year, even the TEACHERS made fun of us.. then again it doesn't help both our parents were teachers and told the ENTIRE STAFF we were going out when we weren't but anyway he moved this summer and i like totally miss him! hes the brother i never had, but he still calls me, but be thankful you have him while you do.

[Dustysage]

If you act like it it no big deal, they will leave you alone. Don't confirm or deny that you are dating Kevin. Just shrug your shoulders and say "Whatever you want to think is fine with me".

[VMKPrincess]

were also planning to tell the Principal, were both going out with someone, from our old schools, it's just...upsetting.

[VMKPrincess]

another thing... i really just met this guy a couple weeks ago, he's just someone i know im my classes, it's no big deal, he's my friend but were not close or anything. We talk about random stuff every once in a while, so why would they assume that.

[FallOut]

Talk to your friends about it, especially if they're some of the people teasing you. Say something like,:
You: Guys, I really don't appreciate the things you say.
Or if it is another person, just talk to them privately like,:
You: Hey, you know about me and Kevin? Well I don't appreciate how you are taking it, I don't know if it is jealousy or what is making you do it, just please stop.
Eventually, if you ignore it, they will forget about it.
OFF TOPIC: Gosh, I'm starving!

[Snappi]

I just ignore my friends who say that ..I always hang around guys so it's actually pretty hard to figure out who I like or not 0_o..but now, just two of my friends know >_<

Just ignore them or just tell them how you feel about it..and if they don't respect you, ah well, just ignore them

[ROCKINGEMAN]

Ok yea, I am stepping up and posting. Just ignore it. That's all. They will forget it. Trust me. Luckily my school isn't like that and we all hang togther without anyone think that kind of stuff. I hug girls all the time. Am i going out with them? No. They are my friends and maybe, just maybe, I want to hug them. I'm pretty sure this one girl likes me. Wait, make that two. I don't like either of them, but I hang around one of them a lot. So, she may get the wrong message... I am used to hanging around girls. When I was young, that's all I did. No one assummed I liked them. It was just me. What would do if someone did that to me is just say. "So what? Think I care? Go ahead say it it doesn't bother me." They will think you truly don't care. They only do it to be annoying and get on your nerves. And if you tell them it doesn't work they won't do it anymore.

Glad you could get a boy's point of view. Good Luck!

[skateprincesariel]

Ok yea, I am stepping up and posting. Just ignore it. That's all. They will forget it. Trust me. Luckily my school isn't like that and we all hang togther without anyone think that kind of stuff. I hug girls all the time. Am i going out with them? No. They are my friends and maybe, just maybe, I want to hug them. I'm pretty sure this one girl likes me. Wait, make that two. I don't like either of them, but I hang around one of them a lot. So, she may get the wrong message... I am used to hanging around girls. When I was young, that's all I did. No one assummed I liked them. It was just me. What would do if someone did that to me is just say. "So what? Think I care? Go ahead say it it doesn't bother me." They will think you truly don't care. They only do it to be annoying and get on your nerves. And if you tell them it doesn't work they won't do it anymore.

Glad you could get a boy's point of view. Good Luck!

Yep, like what ROCKINGEMAN said, ignore and act like you could careless. Some boys at my school just go around giving hugs, most the times we hug and saw "ILY..Just not like that" and give a gentle shove. the girls do it to, I find it amusing. If those boys really bug you just ignore them, and walk away. If they still bug you don't act like me and try and murder them. hehe Good luck hangling your sits-i-ation.

-skateprincesariel