I guess I would fall under Attractions Guest but I wouldn't wait hours for one attraction, I just like to hit up as many attractions as possible.
I like watching parades and shows but I don't plan my day around them nor would I wait any amount of time for them to start. If I happen to time it right and the parade is starting as I'm walking by I will probably stop, especially for the Pixar Play Parade and Electrical Parade.
I haven't stopped for character interactions since I was in elementary school. Once I hit middle school I more or less stopped. Sure, if there is a short line for Donald I will stop since he is my favorite or if I'm doing character dining such as Goofy's Kitchen I would get into it but I wouldn't wait in line at Pixie's Hollow or Fantasy Faire. I will be the first to admit I find it creepy when guys, or anyone really, over 10 plan their day around stalking princesses and "befriending" the characters. If it is their first visit I would be understanding but people with an AP who go at least 2 times a month just are concerning to me for some reason.
I like themeing but I wouldn't say I stop and take it all in. I will admit that I'm guilty in that respect.