If you care about "Gay Days" then you have to acknowledge that you have homophobic tendencies. I am not saying your a horrible person for having those tendencies, I just think you need to acknowledge that part of yourself. Almost everyone has some prejudices. Acknowledging those parts of ourselves and giving everyone the same respect, in spite of ourselves make us better human beings. I would bring my family to Disneyland during "Gay Days" or any other day for that matter. Unless a group of Park goers are rude or causing a disruption I will continue to enjoy the park and go about my day unfazed. If my kids asked about what they see, I would simply tell them the truth. There are different kinds of love in the world.