I am going to Disneyland with my family next month for 5 days. We all go together every year-there are 9 of us going this time. This year will be different because my daughter is bringing her bestfriend who has never been. (They are both 11yrs) She is so excited and is counting down the days! I have 2 questions. 1) Should we try to do as much as possible so that she doesn't miss anything or should we just relax and take it easy? 2) What is the one thing that she should definitely not miss? Thanks for all your help. It's been years since I've been with a first timer.