We can chose to be tolerant of the beliefs of others but we cannot do it if our attitude is 'me first'. 'Me first' is about others conforming to our ideals. Tolerance is not about being offended at the offensive but accepting the intolerance of others and the diversity caused by the viewpoints of others. I am far from perfect in accepting the offensive in others, and it has taken years to understand the concept of the tolerant man tolerating the intolerant. I am unable as of yet to practice it well but at least I am beginning to understand the logic of the concept.
Disney is in a bad spot. There reason of existence is to make money, at its core the mission is devoid of morals. I understand from a business standpoint why they need to offend as little as possible, but the decision comes with costs that are hard to quantify. When Walt was the big stockholder and waver of the magic money wand he could offend if he thought it was required, but today the corporation is forced to march differently.