Re: Do you ever not follow your gut instinct then regret it afterward?
Originally Posted by SCUBAbe
yes...just tonight....I knew I should have said no, but I was tryign to be nice ...now after 1 1/2 hours of fighting with my parents and my daughter I have the satidfaction of knowing I should have said no...although it does not matter now....it's amazing that anytime somethign happens good in my life somethign else will happen 10 times as bad and it just sucks that good feeling away....tonight still sucks...
You know ScUbabe, I had to stay away from my parents for a while. I had to make them relize I was not going to play the you boss me around and make me feel bad any more game. I decided to stay away and they did not get to see Rachal. I was not going to go thru the hell of them telling me how my life was or how I must change things. I did this on my own and my own way. They were not happy campers and blamed me, but when we did come together again, they tried to do it voer again. I just informed them I was going to have to not come any more. they straightened up, but again we had our moments.It takes a strong will and a "I will run my own life and if you want tose us get some changes done in your own life or I am not coming back!!!
My mom was bad, real bad and she drove me to drink years ago. If I did not do what she wanted we had huge fights and she had me in knots. I refuse to play that game!
I married some fool just to get away, sad to say this worked but my life was worse ! You do what you need to do to survive, do not take guff as you need healing and they need to get a life. I am hoping and praying they do and you feel better ! ok, got to go again ,man I am buisy today!!!