So- for those who have been following the recent dramas of Cas and her band of merry screw ups- here is the latest chapter-
Davis having blown the fragile trust by:
taking up smoking again and lying about it
not taking his meds and lying about it
breaking a window
stealing from his sisters piggie bank
not coming home at night
not calling home when he was out
taking my dads coat, because the one he had wasn't cool enough and then lying about it
along with various fights and verbal outbursts.....
He had promised to change things- admitted to the things he had done, and said he was going to show we could trust him.
I told him today and fall break were very important to take the chance to show us that he meant it-
Today was going ok- but then....he decided to break into a locked room, and steal a BB gun. He was seen doing it, got into a fight with my mother- where he screamed that she hated him- among other distractions from the issue- and then he snuck back into the locked room and put the gun back.
And lied about it- and lied about it- until finally the evidence overwhelmed his lies-
There was no fight after that, no outbursts- but mom and dad don't even want him here anymore. I don't know how he can even begin to fix this. He is off all next week and mom doesn't want him at home because she would have to watch him like a 2 year old. More! So he may end up sitting in my car at work- because he would not be allowed in the office. (we are not a family friendly office anymore)and we are talking 10 hour days.
I am not happy.
I was on the phone with the social worker on call- who spoke with her supervisor who knows Davis (and has sat in on many meetings with him) and we decided to allow him to stay at a friends tonight. Which sucks cause he is grounded- but we need peace too.
He has an appt with his therapist tomorrow morning- which should be interesting- then he better spend some time SHOWING me a change. I don't know what will happen on Monday when I finally get to (hopefully) talk with his PO and social worker.
I am so burned out- I hope they have more help for me than usual. He also has an appt to check his meds on the 25th- maybe he needs something new.