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    do you ever.....

    Feel like just walking away? Leaving behind everything, and just drive forever to anywhere?

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    Re: do you ever.....

    When I'm really upset or steamed about something I just want to get away. Doesn't matter where I go. I want to just hop in the car and drive off anywhere or walk out my front door and keep walking.

    After a while I'll cool down and I'm ready to come back. The important part is that you want to go back at the end of it. I know that you're having problems, but it's nothing that a little time apart to cool off can't help. Once you calm down and start thinking reasonably, you can talk about things more openly.






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    Re: do you ever.....

    Quote Originally Posted by RedHandedJill View Post
    When I'm really upset or steamed about something I just want to get away. Doesn't matter where I go. I want to just hop in the car and drive off anywhere or walk out my front door and keep walking.

    After a while I'll cool down and I'm ready to come back. The important part is that you want to go back at the end of it. I know that you're having problems, but it's nothing that a little time apart to cool off can't help. Once you calm down and start thinking reasonably, you can talk about things more openly.




    I don't want to talk about it. and how freaking annoying when you are the one ignoring and they switch it around and start ignoring you! argh!

    but I get it.

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    Re: do you ever.....

    yes, every time life brings a change I'm not ready for or don't want to happen.

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    Re: do you ever.....

    yes, I feel kind of like that now but also fear of being alone :/ weird mix
    ✶Dreams do come true!!!✶


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    Re: do you ever.....

    Quote Originally Posted by littlepixie View Post
    Feel like just walking away? Leaving behind everything, and just drive forever to anywhere?
    Yes many times but it really doesn't resolve the problem... for me anyway.

    I have to talk things out and it gives a better communication with all parties involved.

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    Re: do you ever.....

    This sucks.

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    Re: do you ever.....

    I have and I did. It didn't work.
    Even though I don't know what your reasons are, the best thing you can do is take responsibility for your own choices. Quitting, blaming something else or being passive only keeps you feeling the same feelings.
    Oo-de-lally!

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    Re: do you ever.....

    Sometimes when I'm stressed at work, yes. I start thinking about going to Tahoe or Sedona or Hawaii and wish I could right at that moment.

    Do you ever take a mental health day when you feel that way and just pamper yourself or do something you really enjoy with someone you really like?

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    Re: do you ever.....

    Of course! Though I jsut want to turn around and go back to CA. lol

    I try to remember that everything is temporary... even if it is years and years... it is still temporary and eventually things will change. And get better.
    Good morning, son
    In twenty years from now
    Maybe we'll both sit down and have a few beers
    And I can tell you 'bout today
    And how I picked you up and everything changed
    It was pain
    Sunny days and rain
    I knew you'd feel the same things...





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    Re: do you ever.....

    Quote Originally Posted by NeverNeverland View Post
    Of course! Though I jsut want to turn around and go back to CA. lol

    I try to remember that everything is temporary... even if it is years and years... it is still temporary and eventually things will change. And get better.
    Thats a great way to think about it, temporary.

    I will think about it like that.

    Thanks everyone.

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