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    Venting... Girls only please...

    Hey girls,


    For all of you have been around for sometime all know I have a two year old son and his really messed up father wanted me back for all the wrong reasons.
    Well, I finally ventured out and found this wonderfully smart funny guy who liked me the way I am, I guess it was too good to be true. I guess I'm just disapointed for letting my self believe something could happen. We live to far away for a real realationship (so he says) , but now he is working on another girl that lives closer by. I guess I'm just mad for not putting up my protection guard I always have up. The thing is he isn't like the other guys. I felt a good different with him that I never feel with anyone and very comfortable, which just isn't me with guys. Oh well I'm so young there are many other people out there, but I'm again not ready to go out for awhile.
    Thanks for letting me vent girly.

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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    All I can say is girl I've been there too.

    I don't have any good advice for you since I'm dagerously close to 30 and have never been married. BUT, you have more important things in your life right now. Focus on being the best mommie you can be, and everything else will fall into place eventually.


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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    I'll say BTDT, but I know that doesn't really help.

    Here ya go. This really helped a friend of mine. There are actually three, all containing good info. May help refine your radar.

    I was 35 when I finally got married and we dated for 4 years before that. I hope that doesn't depress you but I am really glad I waited for the right one and didn't settle.


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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    If it's a new relationship, that has some distance, I think it will never work out. Your better off finding someone who is close by.

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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    Try not to let it get to you... the guy you're talking about has always seemed very picky and floats from girl to girl quickly... He seems like a great guy as a friend but to date... well, he just seems a bit flaky. i'm glad that he didn't lead you along.

    It is GREAT that you're turning your life around and everything! This is just a bump... I hope you can get over it soon.
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    I knew you'd feel the same things...





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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    Friends are better than dating anyways. Thanks everyone I'm feeling much better. When I first wrote in I just had found out and was upset.

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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    Quote Originally Posted by Stephanie2786
    Friends are better than dating anyways. Thanks everyone I'm feeling much better. When I first wrote in I just had found out and was upset.
    that's right, friends are much better. Hope you feel better

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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    I love that book that earkid said. It's so honest! You might want to pick one up.
    Enjoy being a mommy and the rest will fall into place, chin up for now
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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    Don't worry stepanie things happen for a reason, mr right is still searching for you Focus on that little boy of yours
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    Re: Venting... Girls only please...

    I married young and it did not work, I was devastated, but I got on with my life. When I finally met DH I was 30, we were together for 2 1/2 years prior to getting married that will be 18 years ago next Monday.
    When it's real, it keeps getting better, not always easier but always better. Hang in there your DH is out there somewhere!
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