So since this is the 5th time something like this has happened, I'm bringing in the troops on this one...
What would you do in the following instance?
I have a myspace, however I am by no means or in the smallest way interested in dating anyone I meet online. I even state that my myspace is exclusively for friends & blogging (as well as networking... I'm an actor), but anyways...
Nobody ever seems to listen. I'm at my wit's end with the last guy and I don't even know what to do.
I mean, i know you have to let a guy know where he stands, and this time I have. I've told him I'm not interested in dating anyone right now (which is actually a lie.... I'm just not interested in him), but he hasn't listened at all and in an email I recieved today basically gave me his life story.
Further, I am 19 & he is 26. Ew.
So I'm coming to you gals to see what you think I should do. I'm an idiot in the dating world, never had a boyfriend, but I just can't deal with running away from nice guys who I'm simply not interested in dating.
I have a heart. I believe in karma. I don't want this to come back to haunt me.
I feel for these guys because I've been turned down many a time too, but I just don't know what to do that's not mean. Avoidence is, and I don't want to do that anymore.
I've actually changed my myspace profile to "in a relationship" a few times to keep them away, and it does seem to work. But the people I do like then avoid me as well. It's a double edged sword.
Thanks for listening to my long rant. Any advice will be extremly appreciated. I don't want to be the bitch anymore.
He're's my myspace url too, maybe there's something wrong with it. I don't know. http://myspace.com/megs1286