Wow... this is a pretty good thought provoking topic... yay for Nephythys!
As for me, I'm not single, so I don't really have an ad out there...
For me, I always looked for:
Trustworthiness (is that a word?)
Sense of humor
Openmindedness (again, not sure if that's a word)
I'm only 5'2", so height has never been an issue for me!
I've been in two very, very serious relationships (last of which is my husband ). The first relationship was with a guy was very outgoing, athletic (a QB), down to earth, romantic and super sweet. My husband, is very different from that (though he still is very sweet!). My husband is very quiet, intelligent, down to earth and a bit of a workaholic (which is why I'm on here a lot!).
The first relationship ended because I couldn't trust (we'll call him Bob) Bob enough (He lied to me several, several times about where he had been and what he had been doing - which if he had told me the truth, I probably wouldn't have cared, it was more the fact that he kept lying continually...)
He was an amazing guy, who I still love (in my own little way) to this day. After I ended it, he was so upset he never spoke to me again (he thought I was the one). I don't think he ever realized how much it broke my heart to end it. He's since moved and I'm not even sure where he is. Sad story...
My husband is the above list, but sterotypically very different than what I thought the person I was going to marry would be like. However, I don't think I'd have it any other way.
(And yes, I may be a flirt :devil: - he knows I am and he trusts me - but like Nephythys, I'm truly harmless and am not here to lead anyone on)
Nephythys - if I see any man (or men!) like your description, I'll send him your way!