Where the hell are any of us? Your question is deceptively simple, but if you look at the grand scheme of things, the whole universe, where the hell are we indeed? Nowhere. We are like a grain of sand in an infinite desert called life.
A great man once said "No matter where you go, there you are".
"I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it. "Groucho Marx