Almost 2 years ago, my parents got a divorce. Since then, there was a peroid of time when my father and I were close. Then he started to change into the person he is today. This same person who committed tax fraud against my brother and I. I decided to sever connection to him in March.
I want you must understand, when I see this man, all I feel is hate, I want nothing to do with him, but he is constantly trying to "apologise" for what he did. It is unforgivable in my opinion. Yesterday he showed up at my work and chased me to my car trying to "talk" to me. Now I am certain that he went home and complained to my 87 year old grandmother.
First, how can I get it across that I want nothing to do with him and he needs to leave me be.
Second, how can I explain this to my grandmother without ruining our relationship. I love her. Her health has been slowly failing, and I want to be there for her. I know that if I refuse a relationship with my father, she with close me off.