So, Gwyren and I are talking about my roommate (shh, don't tell her ) who likes this guy she works with. Signs say that he likes her too, but he hasn't made any move yet. All they do is talk and talk and talk at work - breaks get extended, he stays after work's over to talk to her (she's a talker to begin with...) but they have discussed some pretty intimate details of their lives. However, he's never made a move to get together after work - even on group outings that he's planned, she hasn't been invited. It also took him a long time and a mutual friend for him to get her number.
She doesn't want to make a move, not being 100% that he likes her and having that notion that us girls have - that we want to be pursued, to have the guy be the one to make the first move, because it's romantic, tradition or whatnot.
In my very limited expirence, I did realize how nice it is to have the guy make the first move - the reassurance that you're not crazy for thinking he likes you, not having to worry about your heart being rejected if he says no... that kinda stuff.
Anyway... what do you gals think about who should make the first move?