So i didn't see the show, but last Friday's Oprah was on dating stuff.
The guest, Patti Novak, gave advice to women on why they are not hsving luck dating.
So the one part mentioned was the 'Pickle Jar Factor'.
[QUOTE]"sometimes you have to let the man open the pickle jar."[/QUOTE]
Basically, sometimes you have to ask him to do something for you to let him feel more manly or needed.
I don't have to think about lettting my man do things for me- sometimes I really need a jar opened and I can't do it, and he does all of the fixing manly stuff around the house (his dad was a handyman, so he knows how to do a lot. I married a manly one, fixes things around the house and works on cars for a living!)