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    Sad I think is a Divorce

    Well I think I'm going to file for divorce. I just needed some info from any one out there who's filed in CA recently. I don't know the first step about going through the process.

    I don't want to bum anyone out with all the details. But I would like to talk aout it maybe get some clairity on the sitch. If anyone dosn't mind.


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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    Wow, MG, I have no advice to give you on this, having never been married or divorced, but I'm sorry to hear it. Hope all works out for the best.
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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    if you have the means, get a lawyer. i have a very good divorce attorney right now. i cannot stress how much better the process has been with this person! good luck to you. this is one of the most difficult times to go thru and i wish you the best of everything
    please be afraid.

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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    Thanks PB, I think that's what I'm gonna do. Iv'e heard the same thing about the lawyer.


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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    MG, I don't have an advice for you besides finding a lawyer but I'm sorry you're going through this and I hope that it is as painless as possible for you. Stay strong!!



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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    Be strong and yes, get a lawyer!!!! This will no doubt be a trying time for you. (been there, done that)
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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    Oh sorry to hear that. I worked for a divorce attourney for a year and it seemed to always get ugly. You can also do a mediation. You have an attourney, he has attourney and then there is a third attourney or retired Judge. The nice thing is you get to put all of your requests out at once. The paperwork for a divorce is not complicated, a paralegal could do it. The main thing is what you both want and if there are kids (visitation schedule etc.) Once all of that is agreed on then it should be pretty smooth sailing.
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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    Oh I am so sorry to hear that you want to do this. I don't have any advice.. well my mom and dad got divorced when I was two.. but that was a while ago. Stay strong, we are here for you.

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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    i'm so sorry to hear that have to go through this. lots of hugs to you!!
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    Re: I think it's a Divorce

    My friend just filed; no lawyers at this point, only a mediator. I like the idea of mediators- they are interested in solutions, lawyers make more money the longer they keep you fighting. No incentive for solutions. I guess it depends how much you're able to talk to each other.

    Good luck on a quick settlement that you can both agree on.

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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    Divorce sucks. But, afterwards....it's the best thing in the whole world. My advice though, start meaningless dating right away.....THEN be alone. The first couple months/years are hard...

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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    I'm sorry to hear that its gotten to the point where you feel this is the only option. But sometimes its just not ment to be. Divorce is hard on everyone involved, but often trying to make it work can be harder in the long run. Sorry I don't have any personal advice (been married 28 years but it hasn't always been easy), but the mediator sounds like a good way to begin. Best of wishes to you at this trying time and don't be afraid to hang out in here if it gets rough. We love to give support and hugs in time of need!




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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    It always depends on property, kids etc. I'm so sorry that this is the end of the Promise you made when you got married.......good luck!
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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    *hugs*
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    Re: I think is a Divorce

    I came really close to divorce a few years (5) ago... things got really bad. He said some verrrry hurtful things, and instead of support during a baaad thing, I got blamed for it. I had planned my escape, even saved $$ for it. Heck, I even found an apartment I liked. Luckily we did work it out, but for me, the pain will always be there.

    ((hugs)) You will survive this, and come out stronger for it.

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