OK, I posted this here in the Gibson Girls Lounge because I thought that women might give better advice than if I were to post this in the Lost Boys Lounge. To be honest, I am a bisexual male. However, I'm in a tough situtation that I need some advice from other people. There is this person that I know and REALLY like. However, I am not sure of this person's sexual preference and I have often found this person and myself flirting and also caught the person looking at me quite a bit. I also return looks as well as I just can't keep eyes off of the person. Yet, I am not around this person enough to really get into the position of finding out. Still at the same time, whenever we are around, or looking at each other, and even talking, I can feel something that I have never felt before. I can even see it in the way the person looks at me that there must be an attraction somewhere along the lines. This is the problem though: the person I am talking about can come of as extremely straight, but then when were around each other, well, you get the point. Do you understand what I am trying to say? Does anyone have any advice as to what I should think or do? Am I tricking myslef into thinking that this person likes me when it is just happens to be a coincidence that we seem talk and smile at each other or even stare at one another? I do not want to do anything drastic or be quick to assum, but it drives me crazy that I don't know or even worse, can't have the person. I have tried getting over it, but I just can't. This is not jsut a sexual attraction, for me, it extends down to emotions and actually wanting to get to know the person really well.
If you can take the time to understand and perhaps give me advice, I would VERY much appreciate it.