I know this is a place for guys, but...I need boyfriend help! I just don't know what is going through his mind and I need to see what guys say about it.
My boyfriend and I had been dating for 11 months. I am 20 and he is 25. About a month ago, we got in a very stupid fight. It started with a fight over dinner and then it just grew (as fights normally do). We didn't talk for two days after and I mistakenly went to a guy friend over it (I know that was a huge mistake). My boyfriend found out, got angry, and broke up with me. He said that it was because I was too dramatic, and that he had already not asked me to talk to this guy.
I gave it a few days, sent him an email apologizing to him and asked him to talk. He agreed to talk, but it had to be the next weekend because of school. Throughout that week, he continued to text me and even sent me a few picture messages. However, when the weekend came, he told me he didn't want to come down because he was 'too confused' and 'couldn't handle face-to-face' contact. A few days later he started texting me again, but I asked him to stop because I was still angry and confused.
The thing that is confusing me the most is the morning we got into this fight he told me 'that i love you and you love me and i am not going anywhere anytime soon' and throughout the break up he kept repeating that he loved me a lot and wished that this wasn't the solution.
We now haven't talked in about 2 weeks. I don't know what to do. It might be best that we have a few weeks of space, just so we can cool down and live our lives, but at the same time, I don't want it to be tooo much space, and I don't want it to be forever. I really love this guy, and really, really miss him and want him back, but at the same time, I've tried. I've reached out and he's just given me back mixed signals. What should I do next? Move on? Or fight for him? And, if I am supposed to fight for him, how do I do that now?
Thank you for your help!