View Poll Results: What do you prefer?

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  • I'm a guy who prefers to ask women out

    13 26.00%
  • I'm a guy who wants women to ask me out

    10 20.00%
  • I'm a lady who prefers to ask men out

    4 8.00%
  • I'm a lady who wants men to ask me out

    23 46.00%
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  1. #16

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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    Back when I was single, I had guys ask me out on a dates. Now, that I am married, I'm always asking my hubby out on dates because I want to get out of the house! Go Figure. I like it when my hubby asks me out on dates. He just needs to ask me out more often.
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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    When I was dating guys, I had no problems going up to a guy and starting something. I think it's great if a girl asks out a guy; she can choose the guy she wants that way rather than hoping the right one comes over.
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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    The last few times I had asked, I got laughed at so...

    I would like it if a guy asks. I makes me feel special, (but I haven't been asked out yet.)

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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    I have asked guys out on dates and haven't run into any bad experiences yet ... although at the moment I'm in a relationship that has been going on for 8 years. But, before that I always felt that if I wanted to be with somebody what's so bad about asking them out. If they say yes it's good, and if they say no ... well you're pretty much back to square one, but at least now you know to move on.


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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    I prefer a guy asking me. The guys I've asked always shot me down. So I kinda gave up on the whole asking guys out.
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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    Quote Originally Posted by Disney Wrassler View Post

    Ladies, do you prefer guys ask you out on dates? Or do you prefer to ask guys out?
    I hate to say this but guys these days are big wimps. If a girl wants to go out with you, she's going to give you plenty of hints. You just need to pay attention to them. And then ask! The worst thing she's gonnna do is say no, but I'm sure she'll be diplomatic about it.

    Quote Originally Posted by LuvsLilo View Post
    Back in the day I prefered the guy to ask me out. Both times I was brave enough to ask a guy to a dance I was shot down. I said never again after that.
    Yep, I asked a guy out once and he turned me down . But another time I asked a guy out and he said yes. You win some , you lose some.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ginarella View Post
    Now, that I am married, I'm always asking my hubby out on dates because I want to get out of the house! Go Figure. I like it when my hubby asks me out on dates. He just needs to ask me out more often.
    Have you tried calling him and singing "You don't bring me flowers, you don't sing me love songs......" as a hint?

    I like to ask my husband "So , do you wanna go to dinner or a movie or dancing?" That always get him to answer the first or the second even if he hadn't even thought to ask me out that night yet!


    If you guys are really scared to ask out girls, here's a really easy way to ask her without risking to much ....say "I'm thinking about going to see _______ at the movie theater tonight. Have you thought about going to see it?" If she says yes, then say "Do you wanna meet me at the theater and see it with me?"

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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    I never asked "Hey would you like to go on a date" to anyone.

    I've asked "Hey, let's go see a movie" or "Hey let's go hang out". I guess those are dates though LOL.

    I've never thought of "dating". I always used the term "hang out" because if I can't be friends with them first then its just lust and lust fades friendships shouldn't.
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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    My 2nd favorite line from a woman "can I buy you a beer?" Decorum prohibits me from repeating my favorite line.

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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    I have issues. So, I prefer someone asking me out.

    Thus, one reason I'm single.

    btw: Where are the options saying "I'm a guy and prefer that men ask me out," "I'm a guy and prefer to ask the men out," "I'm girl and prefer to ask the ladies out," "I'm a girl and want the ladies to ask me out," and "I'm desperate -- please, anybody! Ask me out!"
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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    Well.......in December 1969, my Mom asked my Dad out on their first date - to take place in January 1970.

    They have been married 36 years.

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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    With girls, i prefer them to ask me out, although sometimes I make the move.
    I usually suggest platonic dates with guys and let them ask me out for the second date
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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    Quote Originally Posted by LuvsLilo View Post
    Back in the day I prefered the guy to ask me out. Both times I was brave enough to ask a guy to a dance I was shot down. I said never again after that.
    Sounds like me. But, I figured I had nothing to lose - at least I found out where I stood with them. When DH and I first started dating, I guess I made the first move. We met on a dating website and I "winked" at him. Then he emailed me back. We talked, then went on a first date to Knott's.


    Quote Originally Posted by FrumiousBoojum View Post
    "I'm desperate -- please, anybody! Ask me out!"
    You so don't want to go there...
    She did it!


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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    wellll, I have only had one guy really ask me out on a date...before I was married. I get asked out all the time now...haha. Alot of good it does me now. At least it's a confidence boost.

    I asked my husband out....to my prom. I already had a date..but, really liked this stockboy who worked with me. So much so, that I would "accidently" drop baby food jars on the floor..so they would bust and he would have to stay late to clean it up. Haha. When I told him he was going to take me to my prom, he joked about it, and I insisted.....before you know it...we were engaged...and then, married. He was really shy.....he tells me now, after 8 years..that he might have gotten up enough courage by now to ask me out.




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    Re: Asking girls/guys out on dates...

    I said "I'm a lady who wants men to ask me out".

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