Okay, so I am trying to make a major life decision, and I ask myself, "Self, where can I go to get outstanding, informed advice?"
Mice Chat, that's where!.................
Anyway, long story longer, my GF of three years and I broke up last October over various issues (none too exciting). Since that time I have dated quite a bit (I discovered if you are 30, no kids, never married, grad degree, most of your teeth, etc. you are pretty marketable) and tried to get an idea of what single life has to offer.
Lately I cannot help but think about my ex. She is an amazing woman, funny, smart, pretty, etc. I am thinking about seeing about getting back together. We have spoken about it, and she wants me to make a commitment to date exclusively and see what happens. My concern is that it has been ten months, and I would like for us to start back up slowly, and see what can happen, rather then just diving in head first. As you can imaging there is some scar tissue from the break-up but I think it can heal.
I have many friends and family that feel that I seem happier now that I am separated from her, but I think they just remember me being miserable at the end of our relationship, which is just as much my fault.
I guess the bottom line is do I give it a try again, or just know that the right thing happened, and the right person is still out there?