I'm in a dilly of a pickle here, and it's kind of a long story, but here goes.
About 4 weeks ago, I was sitting exactly where I am right now, when suddenly my phone rings. So I picked it up and it was my friend, my friend explained to me that her mother was pissed at her because she had gone to work without letting the dog out, and that no one was home. So she was wondering if I could go to her house and let her dog out. I said yes, and went over, let the dog out. Put it back in and then left.
Well her mom got home and when my friend told her that I had let the dog out, her mom was all like "Oh that was nice of him! Blah Blah Blah" Now I feel I should point something out. This friends mom, is an evil Ice Queen. If she likes you, its because you've been working hard to get her to like you for a long time, if she doesn't like you you watch out, she is a hardcore bitch. Her mom liked me, but now she really liked me and thought I was the best thing since sliced bread.
So a few days later my friend told me that her mom was really happy that I had let the dog out. ( I really didn't think it was a huge deal but whatever) and said that her mom was thinking about having me over for supper one night. So now keep in mind, my friends mom had never invited me, and never told me that she was cooking this supper especially for me, as far as I was concerned I would just be coming by and eating with them. Well this day came and my friend called me. She said that if I wanted to I could come over because they would be eating soon. I went to tell my parents that I was going to go, but they said that they would rather me spend a night with my brothers and take them to KFC or something. So I told my friend that I couldn't make it, and told her why.
Well I took my brothers out and came home, where I was told by my parents that if I wanted to go out, I could. About 5 minutes later another friend of mine calls and invites me to her house. (She was an exchange student while I was) So I went over, and she says we should call my other friend, so she does, and tells her that I am there. (me and the other friend, at this point, are much closer) but she can't make it.
So the next day I call my friend to see if she wants to do something, but she doesn't. Because she's pissed off, and her mom's pissed off. Because apparently they had made this big dinner for me. No one ever told me that it was FOR me, and as far as I knew it wasn't a big deal, because her mom never actually invited me, it was just my friend telling me that I could come around to eat if I wanted to. My friend understood, but my friends mom decided to hold a grudge against me. At one point my friend and her mom got into an argument about hwo my friend is "too quick to forgive people" (even though, as my friend argued, there was really nothing to forgive me for)
Now here we are 4-5 weeks later, and my friend's mom is still pissed at me.
Here is where part two of this kicks in: I've decided that I don't like her mom. So I don't want to be around her. But my friend always insists that we hang out at her house whenever we hang out. We never go anywhere it always her house. The last time we tried to plan something I offered my house, but she didn't want to come over here. So I said that I was staying home and that she was invited to come if she wanted. She didn't. How do I still hang out with her, and not go to her house? She has seriously been my best friend for like 2 years, and its come to a point where I'm actually considering ending the friendship. Ugh, its frustarating.