I'm so sorry to hear your day was spoiled. Vic and I recently took a friend to Disneyland on her birthday. We stopped at the Grand Californian "Guest Relations" desk and got her a pinback Birthday pin. (It not just a paper sticker but a real pin!) She was wished Happy Birthday 21 times during our visit to DCA and Disneyland.
"Yesterday, a man walked up to me and said, 'Isn't it a shame that Walt Disney couldn't be here to see this?' and I said, "He did see this, that's why it's here."
-Art Linkletter July 17, 2005-
"I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it. "Groucho Marx