do I count??? havent seen the **&%$ since 1998.. moved to Ky to escape his nutty a$$ havent gotten rid of him yet cause im too poor and hes too stupid to file but im working on rectifying that little oversight!!
2nd: married him after knowing him 5 weeks. Lasted 12 months
First wife I was living with after about a month. Couldn't get marreid until her divorce from her first husbad was complete.... Yes, she was split up before we met. No I didn't "break them up". Did I mention she was pregnant with a 3rd man's baby when we started dating? She let me think the baby was mine for the first 5 months of the pregnancy until I figured out the dates didn't match to when we started fooling around. No, the bio-dad wasn't the man she was cheating with on her first husband with. That was yet another man.....
That was a LONG and UNHEALTHY marriage there.... The daughter didn't know I wasn't her bio-dad until we got divorced. I agreed to pay child support for her even though I wasn't the bio-dad. She was my duaghter for all those years afterall. She hasn't talked to me in over a year... since I got remarried.
Second wife I was dating for about two and a half weeks before we got engaged. Rebound mistake? All new tragedy? No way to know.
Met the ex in '92 - worked at the Disney Store with him. Then we got married in '95 and divorced in '97. He walked out when I declared that I wanted my own bank account.
The ******* was really controlling, ruled by his chauvenistic best friend, and was obsessed with money, and constantly whined about us not owning a brand new house at the age of 22, and pretty much blamed me for that. He also constantly went to singles' bars and strip clubs with his best friend, telling me, "Well, those women are nice to look at." By the time he left, my self-esteem had already packed up and gone.
He remarried a year later to an older woman who already owned a home (so he got what he wanted). He got to make a lot of money and buy an even bigger house, thanks to his best friend's construction company. That company got shut down and sued last year, causing them severe personal financial loss. Needless to say, that evening when I got the news about the company's demise, I went and had a Coke and a smile. I love how the universe takes care of itself.
So, tip to folks out there - Disney should NOT be the only thing in common with your SO.
My current honey and I have been living together for over a year, and it's quite blissful. We hardly ever argue, and if we do, it lasts for maybe a minute. We're also each others' bestest friends and do everything together. He wasn't a Disney geek when we met, but we had SO much other stuff in common, that his "conversion" to Disney just came naturally. And I think it's safe to say that it'll be my second and final marriage when the time comes.