....the post about the Lesbian woman that tried to get an ex-lover back an made up stories about a rape by a man got me to thinking about this......
-that said, I am asking for your opinions to my question as to what should be done about this following circumstance-
About 5 years ago, someone I know was 'taken advantage of' by someone he was helping through a very bad time. The young man was about 18 or 19 - the one that was being helped.
The 'counselor' had a feeling that the young man had a 'thing' for him...but left it at that. The counselors wife was also beginning to feel the same way.......that the young man had a thing for the counselor too.
Anyway, the way it all is, it appears as though the young man 'took advantage' of the counselor when the counselor was 'not aware' of it. Although the counselor DID become aware of it when he was 'startled' out of his sleep.
It's a very bizarre happening......and the counselor never made anything out of it because the young man was already being tried for the same sort of thing tried on a minor - and eventually did 6 months later that year.
What the counselor found out and realized that much of what the young man had told him during 'counseling sessions' and 'suicide watch' times was completely untrue.......all out lies just to get the counselor to 'side' with him.
The 'counselor' has a lot of pent up feelings about this person and what happened.........and is not quite sure how to deal with it now.