The 14 year old enjoys squalor and prefers to mow lawns and wash cars for his cash.
Whatever. I just want them to know how to wash a load of laundry, properly clean a toilet and clear the table after dinner.
My 10 year old has to do the catbox, the toliet in their bathroom, empty garbages in the laundry room and their bathroom and unload the dishwasher to make his $$ He does good on everything but the catbox, that's an ongoing battle.
My 6 year old puts away pots and pans & all other non dishwasher dishes, unloads the dryer on the the folding area (either couch or bed)and puts the folded towels away.
They are both in charge of their own rooms doesn't go over well and their own laundry. I fold they put away. This summer the little one has started putting his clothes on hangers, he's got shirts down, pants not so much. The big one refills the cat water and the little one the cat food.
The big one lost his allowance this summer for basically being a smart mouthy spoiled butt. This was in July and he hasn't gotten a dime since. The little one does great on his chores but bad on his room so he usually gets half his allowance.
My philosophy is that when I work, we all work. I make up a list and let the kids choose the ones they want. They never want to do dishes, so I take that one. Anyway, we work and get the house clean, then we play. No allowance paid, but they are learning family values. It works for our family. Maybe give it a try.