Who's your favorite original park character at TDR?

[TDLFAN]

Originally Posted by Smileydad

Um...hello? I'm gay. You can't call the pot white unless you're a kettle.

Racist comment too? My, and I was told you are not white. But I do not judge by color, only character and mine is pretty nasty.

And my point was that adhering to heterosexist stereotypes about what male is or is not "allowed" to be is half a toe away from gay bashing in my book. If it hadn't surprised and offended me so deeply, I wouldn't've bothered posting at all. How did you not get that?

Because to be honest, I hardly ever read much of what you post since I find it a bit infantile at times...reason why I sometimes come down to your level...even if for fun only and to pull on your chain.

Are these grade-school bully tactics supposed to scare me or something, TDLFAN? I mean, I know you're not used to getting called out on your crap, but - come on -

Actually I am called on my crap all of the time. You just don;t know it because you never particiapte in the other Disney park forums.

"It's not only me; dozens of people are talking about you behind your baaack!" Oh, gosh! Whatever will I do? Are you really being "that guy?" Seriously? I hope you and your "dozens on people" [sic] find better ways to spend your time.

But unlike you.. I actually enjoy it when people talk behind my back... otherwise, I would be as insignificant as... you? around here, Mr. Neverbeen2anyDparkoutsidejapananddonothaveaclueabo utthemunliketdlfan. I think from now on I shall call you "SmileyDad", since you are so gayly creative with their use.. Oh BTW.. we all knew you were gay anyways. That cattyness is not something straight men know how to do well, and you know how our gaydar can identify each other just fine. Besides.. you have got to be gay to love Duffy, no?

[DuffyDad]

Originally Posted by TDLFAN

Racist comment too? My, and I was told you are not white. But I do not judge by color, only character and mine is pretty nasty.

"You were told?" By who, your " evil minions?" Sometimes it seems like you really believe that you're a villainous queen in a dark tower...scary. My freaking avatar attached to every post is a black man holding a Duffy bear; I thought it was obvious. I'm not white, but my mother is. And I'm not racist. It's a derivation on the idiom... Nevermind. And yes, I'm beginning to agree with that last part, sadly.

Originally Posted by TDLFAN

Because to be honest, I hardly ever read much of what you post since I find it a bit infantile at times...reason why I sometimes come down to your level...even if for fun only and to pull on your chain.

I really try not to post unless I think what I have to say has value or acknowledges the value of what someone else has posted. I have never been described as "infantile" before, so I'll just take that as another in the long list of you-don't-get-me cheap shots. There are many people in this community who value our diversity and who don't find antagonizing others "fun." Why not come up to this level? It's really nice here.

You will never have an opportunity to "pull on my chain," so don't try. I have only replied for clarification to the forum at large in response to issues of community, homophobia, and racism. It has never been and still is not personal for me, which is why I talk to you here and not in PMs. I don't care what you think. I could if I respected you, but I find that scenario ever harder to imagine. I do, however, care deeply about community building; it defines my life's work. You are poison in this community. With no sense of shame or remorse, you take pride and pleasure in sowing discord with others. Just in case it mattered, I wanted to suggest another way. I thought perhaps you misunderstood me and if I could just explain properly, we could even be friends. I understand now that I was sadly mistaken.

Originally Posted by TDLFAN

Actually I am called on my crap all of the time. You just don;t know it because you never particiapte in the other Disney park forums.

But unlike you.. I actually enjoy it when people talk behind my back... otherwise, I would be as insignificant as... you? around here, Mr. Neverbeen2anyDparkoutsidejapananddonothaveaclueabo utthemunliketdlfan. I think from now on I shall call you "SmileyDad", since you are so gayly creative with their use.. Oh BTW.. we all knew you were gay anyways. That cattyness is not something straight men know how to do well, and you know how our gaydar can identify each other just fine. Besides.. you have got to be gay to love Duffy, no?

I can't be that insignificant; apparently "dozens" of people are talking about me, my teddy bear, and my sexual orientation. Kinda sounds like I'm a superstar, actually, and I didn't have to hurt anybody. And by the way, gumshoe, anyone here who didn't know I'm gay hasn't been paying attention; it's not something I'm ashamed of or hide from. You and your "Dirty Dozens" want a cookie for your plucky detective work?

How sad that you think notoriety is more valuable than connection. As much as I can't stand you, I wish I could hug you. I'm sure you'll think that's just me being "infantile" or worse, sinking to your level of sarcasm and snip, but I really mean it. I can't help feeling deep compassion for a grown man who reasons (and types/spells) the way you do. "Infantile"...hm... I am beginning to understand now how much this acidic persona means to you, so have at it. Enjoy. We all want different things, I guess.

What you do damages MiceChat, though. I would report you if I thought it would help, and if I didn't find "tattle" systems so infantile (last time^^). It's true that I don't participate in other forums, precisely because "I've never been to any parks except TDR and don't have a clue about them because being a Disney Evil Queen is not my goal in life, unlike TDLFAN." Disney is just a fun pastime for me, not a lifestyle choice. I have the Annual Passport because it was economically practical, but I don't go everyday or even every week. I enjoy TDR and I like Duffy, but this is not - and never will be - the center of my life. I'm glad you're getting what you need out of it, though, TDLFAN. Good for you. For me, talking to you is starting to feel about as valuable/sane/entertaining as talking to an overstuffed Stitch doll. To your credit, though, I the name SmileyDad and it really does suit me.

There are lots of straight males (although to be fair, probably mostly children) who love Duffy as much as I do (and plenty who know how to be catty, too, though usually not children^^). Comments like "cattyness is not something straight men know how to do well" or "gotta be gay to love Duffy" -> "Duffy is for wusses" -> "gay = wuss"...I just wish you'd honor this line, and not cross it. It's not good for yourself to take power in this logic, no matter what your purpose is nor how serious you really are about it. This kind of stuff has no place in our community. Everyone reads these threads. It's not only about you, which I finally realize is precisely the problem.

This'll be my last response to your goading. I see now that I'm just playing into your juvenile game by trying to engage you in a real dialogue and that I'm wasting my time and energy, and probably boring/frustrating people in this forum. You enjoy this. I honestly can't imagine why, and that's probably what irks you about me the most. I can't understand how disrupting a community or being unkind for the sake of being unkind could ever be pleasurable. And I am deeply thankful for that.

I don't care what news you have, what pictures you post, what secrets you know - you are toxic to this community - but everyone else just tolerates you so I guess I will, too. You win. I won't reply to your taunts anymore; I only replied to these because you called me first a homophobe and then a racist. The gay black man. The unfortunate thing about winning your game, though, is that now you don't have an enemy to imagine. You'll have to find a new person to play your ball of yarn. Hopefully not a totally new person, like I was when you started this, who you'll scare away from MiceChat, like you almost did me. Another voice lost. I wonder how many people that's happened to during your "reign," oh great queen?

But, hey, you're "harmless." That's what everyone says, right? It's just your "personality." I gotta give it to you, for a total jerk who ruins the atmosphere of this community, you're really lucky to have such supportive friends here. Hopefully someday you'll appreciate them; I mean genuinely.

This horse is dead.

Sorry...'nother idiom.^^

[TDLFAN]

Originally Posted by DuffyDad

Why not come up to this level? It's really nice here.

I know how it is. I have attended many Micechat meets and those who know me personally, know the real story behind the TDLFAN character. May I remind you it was you who did not show for the meet we had a few months ago? Otherwise, I think you would have a better opinion of the person behind the character.

Originally Posted by Duffydad

I can't be that insignificant; apparently "dozens" of people are talking about me, my teddy bear, and my sexual orientation.

..and remember, you owe it all to me. It pays to be put in the spotlight by TDLFAN.

As much as I can't stand you, I wish I could hug you.

Please don't. I may catch Duffy Fever from you.. LOL!! But one thing for the record.. I do not have a problem with you personally as a poster and yes, I CAN stand you just fine... I simply do not get this Duffy adoration of yours (or anyone for that matter) and find it odd. Shoot me, but that is how I feel. Instead of going berseck over that, maybe you should accept this point of view and say..."ok, that's fair". I would respect you more if you had instead of going all defensive over it.
Maybe one of these days if you ever cared to meet with me, Ichigopara or other Micechatters at TDR, you will find that I am not really the horrible person that TDLFAN is.. and you need to get that straight. (no pun intended ) You will also learn that english is not my first language, reason why I can't spell nor type on a keyboard to save my life!!! So your attempt to bring me down for spelling or whatsoever, does not bother me because I know it's true, and I am the first one to admit my own personal faults and even make fun of it as well. Seems to me you do not have the guts to even admit to yourself how your likes and dislikes can be percieved by others.. and accepting criticism about yourself the same way you dish it out about others (me in this case) will make you a better and more respectable person, reason why those who know me on a personal level, get me and deal with me just fine... because they know me.

What you do damages MiceChat, though. I would report you if I thought it would help, and if I didn't find "tattle" systems so infantile (last time^^)

GO AHEAD. That is what the moderators are here for and if the owners of this site, who I know personally and respect deeply, have an issue with TDLFAN or my style, commentary, contributions on this community, they can ask me to leave and I will gladly do so.

MiceChat

Fun with colors!! That is so COOOOOL.

This horse is dead.

Poor horsey...
PS- looks like I have done a good job at "pulling your chain" after all

[Another Voice]

That is what the moderators are here for and if the owners of this site, who I know personally and respect deeply, have an issue with TDLFAN or my style, commentary, contributions on this community, they can ask me to leave and I will gladly do so.

And that's the problem.

You are indulged, I would even say spoiled.

And that is why many people - and now including myself - have chosen to stop posting here.

[TDLFAN]

That is your prerrogative. Don't blame me for it. Personally, I think it's idiotic to stop participating in a forum just because you do not agree with someone, or do not care for the criticism.. which I take all the time.

[Another Voice]

Personally, I think it's idiotic to stop participating in a forum just because you do not agree with someone, or do not care for the criticism...

It's not the disagreements I have a problem with.

It's the personal insults you throw, the way you insult every new poster, they way you "correct" other people's opinion to conform to your's. It's a vacation - no one really cares if what we think meets your standards or not. I can't think of a single posting you've made that hasn't included a subtle put-down of another poster.

Sorry for challenging your status in the toy box, Woody.

[TDLFAN]

I don't feel you are challenging me. You are entitled to your opinions, just like I am so, and deep down inside, that is the point of participating in forums like this.

[Another Voice]

You called me "stupid" and "lazy" for not waiting in a 2+ hour line for 'Monsters'.

I do not find that to be an "opinion".

Nor is that "participation" on your part, other than to show how once again you are a better person than me (much as you've done with each and every new poster's trip report - in the short time I've been here I've lost count of the number of people that posted, you blasted, and never returned).

You have - all by yourself - created a hostile environment on this board. An environment where people can not express their true opinions without being subject to sneers and snappy putdowns is not a place for participation. Despite you’re numerous trips, you offer very little in the way of real insight or real help to others. Instead each and every post is either cheered for agreeing with you or the poster is personally attacked for whatever character flaw forced them to disagree with you.

Like so many other around here, I’m simply fed up with the drama. The Internet is a big place with lots of toyboxes. Woody, this one is yours.

[TDLFAN]

Another Voice, there is an "ignore" option, and you can put me on your ignore list any time. Besides, whether I am able to help others or not, is debatable...as nearly every time I am posting, most times I am answering a question of some sort about TDR or any of the other resorts. I am not here to offer "insights" as I am not a company employee, nor do I live with my nose stuck to the Disney Archives and trying to learn very possible aspect of the Disney company. I think many people here have benefited from the advise I have provided most times... (and you know who you are ) But like I said, it's your prerrogative to put me in your "ignore" list and get rid of me without sacrifycing your time and participation here, and you are also welcomed to contact the moderators with any issues you may have about me or anyone else's opinions/posts. Unlike what some of you may think.. NO, I am not pampered. Even thought I have come to know the operators of this site on a personal level, they will waste NO time getting to me and reprimending me for any comments that create a "hostile enviroment" and such was the case about my comment to you in your trip report. Now, on the other hand, the reason why I am not putting you on my "ignore list" is because I understand you have valid complaint against my point of view, which I admit was rude because I was honestly disappointed at you for going all the way there and not chosing to see the newest attraction in the park. I also do not care to put you under "ignore" because you have provided very good insights that are informative and appeared to be educated..which again was reason enough for me to be shocked by your skipping Monsters Ride. But as you have mentioned.. this is your vacation and you should do as you please.
Still... that does not change my mind about the topic at hand.. adoration of Duffy by some fans.. which is something that bothers me, because I see this as Disney's ultimate way of grabbing money from guests... just like the pin craze is, the BBBs, photopass... and other needless things the company will do to make a buck off people. But don't mind me.. because anything I say or do, especially when it comes to commenting on the ways Disney grab your money, will not stop you from taking my opinions on Disney on a personal level, and turning them against me as a personal insult, which I have endured for many years in the fan community. Maybe that is why it's so easy for me to do the same in return? So yes, I have been in the recieving end just as much or even more so than many of you who think all the pixie dust in the world can't cause you harm. The difference is.. I can accept the criticism just fine and move on.. but, can you?

[DuffyDad]

First off, I'll just say that the part about spelling/typing...I almost didn't put that because on the web, there are lots of non-native speakers of lots of languages, especially English, and varying levels of education/computer experience. I thought better of it, but I was also kinda mad. So, yeah, I guess you got me, TDLFAN. Good for you. Anyway, I am sorry for that. I knew it was petty, had the chance to edit it, but said it anyway. I'm ashamed. You got me.

Originally Posted by TDLFAN

May I remind you it was you who did not show for the meet we had a few months ago? Otherwise, I think you would have a better opinion of the person behind the character.


..and remember, you owe it all to me. It pays to be put in the spotlight by TDLFAN.

I didn't come because you told me in PMs that if I was "weird" I wouldn't be invited again and you were sure Ichigo and Joe also agreed. This was about two days after I'd joined. I've met Ichigo a few times and talked to Joe on the phone. I doubt their processes of evaluating people share much in common with yours. I don't understand the game you're playing, but could you please play it without me? "Character?" What? You think I'm crazy because I carry a bear in a theme park instead of wearing ears on my head, but you create an alternate persona for the purpose of gaining notoriety by antagonizing people? Idon'getit. Anyway, I don't owe you anything. I didn't come here to be famous; that's not a goal for me. I came for a fun, safe community to talk about my love of character/environment design and maybe meet people to go with cos most of my friends do not share this interest. So...thanks, I guess, for your apparently well-intentioned "help," but no thanks. Really.^^

Originally Posted by TDLFAN

I do not have a problem with you personally as a poster and yes, I CAN stand you just fine... I simply do not get this Duffy adoration of yours (or anyone for that matter) and find it odd. Shoot me, but that is how I feel. Instead of going berseck over that, maybe you should accept this point of view and say..."ok, that's fair". I would respect you more if you had instead of going all defensive over it.
Maybe one of these days if you ever cared to meet with me, Ichigopara or other Micechatters at TDR, you will find that I am not really the horrible person that TDLFAN is.. and you need to get that straight. (no pun intended ) You will also learn that english is not my first language, reason why I can't spell nor type on a keyboard to save my life!!! So your attempt to bring me down for spelling or whatsoever, does not bother me because I know it's true, and I am the first one to admit my own personal faults and even make fun of it as well. Seems to me you do not have the guts to even admit to yourself how your likes and dislikes can be percieved by others.. and accepting criticism about yourself the same way you dish it out about others (me in this case) will make you a better and more respectable person, reason why those who know me on a personal level, get me and deal with me just fine... because they know me...

PS- looks like I have done a good job at "pulling your chain" after all

You've called me "weird" and threatened me with excommunication, insulted my "hook" to Disneyana countless times, implied that I'm a homophobic racist, and said that you don't read what I post because it's "infantile" while at the same time stalked my posts to add quippy little one-liners. Through all of this - and not only with me - you take no responsibility, and even try to present yourself as the misunderstood victim. No, TDLFAN, at this point, I'm honestly not eager to meet you in person. Your need for attention and what you're willing to do to get it would really clash with my vibe, I think. I like everybody I'm with to be important, including but not limited to me. And the way you've continuously tried to twist what I've or Another Voice has said into a personal attack...it's astonishing, and it's disgusting. I don't care how my preferences are perceived by others; everyone has an opinion. It's how some people behave based on their bias that bothers me. You don't have to be a jerk, for any reason. Both AV and I were just trying to talk to you about your behavior. It just feels, though, like wasted breath with you.

I'm pretty sure I don't need any lessons from you about "how to be a better and more respectable person." I'm pretty sure I heard you about your typing and I'm pretty sure I apologized first thing. But y'know the real thing of it is, TDLFAN, that I already felt bad about that before you said anything. I knew it was stupid when I did it, and I admitted it. So when I say I'm sorry, which I was willing to do, you can feel confident that I really mean it.

Originally Posted by Another Voice

And that's the problem.

You are indulged, I would even say spoiled.

And that is why many people - and now including myself - have chosen to stop posting here.

I hope you don't do that, Another Voice. I appreciate your presence here. Those pieces about the history of DisneySea were especially insightful for me.^^

Originally Posted by TDLFAN

That is your prerrogative. Don't blame me for it. Personally, I think it's idiotic to stop participating in a forum just because you do not agree with someone, or do not care for the criticism.. which I take all the time.

Originally Posted by Another Voice

It's not the disagreements I have a problem with.

It's the personal insults you throw, the way you insult every new poster, they way you "correct" other people's opinion to conform to your's. It's a vacation - no one really cares if what we think meets your standards or not. I can't think of a single posting you've made that hasn't included a subtle put-down of another poster.

Sorry for challenging your status in the toy box, Woody.

Originally Posted by Another Voice

You called me "stupid" and "lazy" for not waiting in a 2+ hour line for 'Monsters'.

I do not find that to be an "opinion".

Nor is that "participation" on your part, other than to show how once again you are a better person than me (much as you've done with each and every new poster's trip report - in the short time I've been here I've lost count of the number of people that posted, you blasted, and never returned).

You have - all by yourself - created a hostile environment on this board. An environment where people can not express their true opinions without being subject to sneers and snappy putdowns is not a place for participation. Despite you’re numerous trips, you offer very little in the way of real insight or real help to others. Instead each and every post is either cheered for agreeing with you or the poster is personally attacked for whatever character flaw forced them to disagree with you.

Like so many other around here, I’m simply fed up with the drama. The Internet is a big place with lots of toyboxes. Woody, this one is yours.

Please, tell me you see this? Everything from you is judgment, and the judgment is so often negative. You hurt someone and then call them "idiotic" for not just putting up with it because it's "just your opinion." It is not about disagreement or criticism, TDLFAN. That's not what you do. What you do is insulting, antagonizing, bullying. I find it very difficult to believe that you honestly don't understand this difference, but if you really don't, we can talk more about it.

I don't really know what's going on with you, but I really can't believe you joined a forum about Disney just to push people around or push people away. If you wanted to, we could actually talk. That's what I'm saying. That's what Another Voice is saying. We aren't trying to attack you; we're trying to be heard. And, I guess Another Voice would agree, we're open to listening if you actually had something to say.

Originally Posted by TDLFAN

Another Voice, there is an "ignore" option, and you can put me on your ignore list any time...
Still... that does not change my mind about the topic at hand.. adoration of Duffy by some fans.. which is something that bothers me, because I see this as Disney's ultimate way of grabbing money from guests... just like the pin craze is, the BBBs, photopass... and other needless things the company will do to make a buck off people. But don't mind me.. because anything I say or do, especially when it comes to commenting on the ways Disney grab your money, will not stop you from taking my opinions on Disney on a personal level, and turning them against me as a personal insult, which I have endured for many years in the fan community. Maybe that is why it's so easy for me to do the same in return? So yes, I have been in the recieving end just as much or even more so than many of you who think all the pixie dust in the world can't cause you harm. The difference is.. I can accept the criticism just fine and move on.. but, can you?

Look at what you wrote, TDLFAN. Another Voice was so honest with you; it's difficult to honestly confront a bully. Especially in a forum where that person has power and knowledge, it's difficult. And in all you said, not only did you put all the responsibility still squarely on Another Voice, you also never apolgized. Sure, you admitted that you were "rude," but you explained away your behavior almost as soon as you said it. It's up to the people you hurt to just "accept it and move on." And you never said "I'm sorry." Why is that so hard?

I'm really sorry that you seem to have had some negative experiences in other Disney communities, but in the time I've been here - just four months now - the only negative person I've seen is you. That's not to make you feel bad or sound dramatic; it's the truth. MiceChat is only like that if you make it so. You have a choice. You're in charge. Can we please play nice and share the toybox?

I've thought about using the "Ignore" option with you, too, but I imagine Another Voice may have decided not to do that for the same reason I did. Your posts are so often mean-spirited and no one challenges them; I don't want to be just another one of the many who ignore - and in so doing, condone - your behavior. Especially when it's directed at new posters, then I really would have something to blame myself for.

Your comment about Duffy as Disney's "money-grabber" is the first time you have ever said something about Duffy that wasn't just about me being "stupid" or "childish" or "crazy." That was an actual opinion, with a reasonable explanation. That was useful. Although I disagree. Kind of.^^

Everything Disney does is ultimately to make money; it's a multinational megacorporation that targets children and parents. The generic "Disney Bear" at WDW that came from the Walt Disney Company existed solely for the purpose of making money. Duffy, completely conceptually redesigned by OLC is the redemption of that process. I have talked about this at length, even in this same topic. His Japanesey-ness, TDS exclusivity, and this point of reinvigorating a soulless marketing scheme with genuine creativity and heart - this is exactly why I love him, above other characters. He represents that part of OLC that is still driven by creativity and excellence, and that when people are driven by those goals, the money comes pouring in naturally. The WDW Disney Bear's relative failure, satisfyingly, demonstrates that when something exists solely for the purpose of grabbing people's money, the people often don't respond.

If that's really your issue, it's odd to me that you've a) never said it so clearly and b) never discussed it in response to my numerous posts about how this IS the difference between the Disney Bear and Duffy, and why I him so much. At least we could have acknowledged our mutual distaste for blatant marketing, although you may not think that OLC has been really successful with reinventing the concept. Personally, I would find that perspective very difficult to argue, given the overwhelming difference in response by Guests. But at least with this approach we'd have something to talk about. That might have been far more constructive than just personally insulting my taste, questioning my manhood/sanity, stalking my posts and mocking me in PMs with your pals. No?

[TDLFAN]

That poor poor poor dead horse...

[DuffyDad]

Originally Posted by TDLFAN

That poor poor poor dead horse...

I replied to apologize, to support Another Voice, and because you finally said something of value to the topic; I wanted to respect that. Too bad you couldn't do the same.

Done.

[TDLFAN]

Well I am not done.

There is something that has really made me sad about all of this because frankly.. it just caught my attention.. and it is this:

I didn't come because you told me in PMs that if I was "weird" I wouldn't be invited again and you were sure Ichigo and Joe also agreed.

I honestly thought that you realized then that when I said that.. I was just joking with you and I thought I made it clear enough... but now I know you didn't get that. FOR THAT AND THAT ALONE, I AM TRULY TRULY SORRY THAT IT OFFENDED YOU. Ichigopara herself can tell you that I was sorry you did not make the meet...which was the night we met with ChrisFL as well, and Joe was there... and we were honestly looking forward to have you or any other other Micechatter that was willing to come along. I was quite disappointed that you chose not to come to the meet. Needless to say now I am feeling awful that what was just meant to be joking did hit you that hard to the point of not feeling welcomed. When I mentioned Joe and Ichigopara.. that also was kinda of putting you on. I do not speak for them and never will. Ichigopara is the nicest person you could possibly ever meet (next to me of course) and Joe is a true true gentleman and friend... even if Joe and I had talked and agreed about the "weirdness" of the Duffy craze. However, I would never exclude you from meeting with us or even with me on my own for your love of everything Duffy just because.. and my comments were based primarily on what odd behavior I have seen from hardcore Duffy fans, mostly female office ladies, while visiting TDS. Finding out that this is the basis of your argument and your hatred towards me, is really sad for me because I feel that you have been served wrong, and for that... I am willing to take responsability for. However, I will not change my mind about what my opinions are about the adoration of Duffy countless people like yourself have, but that is not to say that I would never exclude you from participating in Micechat related meets or other meets that may come about due to our participation in these forums. So the proverbial ball is in your side of the court. It is up to you to be willing to meet with me, Ichigopara, Joe or anyone else who wants to meet at TDR, the next time we can get together for a meet, dinner and just gossip and enjoy an attraction. After all, since I am the proud owner of 3 Duffy plushes...maybe we can trade costumes and compare notes?

[gurgi]

"After all, since I am the proud owner of 3 Duffy plushes...maybe we can trade costumes and compare notes?"

Wait...what???? For shame, TDLFAN! :-) It turns out you are not immune to his charms as well, and Disney DID get your Duffy money, LOL!

[Another Voice]

Another Voice, there is an "ignore" option, and you can put me on your ignore list any time.

Were it not for the fact that you are actively driving other posters away, I would not care about your postings. You just don’t get it about your behavior – that you try to “raise” yourself up by smashing other people down. Duffy is “deranged”, I’m “stupid”, Ms. Bee is a “typical American tourist”…the list is long.

Besides feeling sorry for all the people who have been insulted, belittled and otherwise abused by TDLFAN, I’m also sorry in the moderators of this board. No where else would such conversation-stopping behavior be allowed; no where else would such pointless narcissism be allowed. I guess hanging out with the owners put you in the “it” crowd.

Too bad. This place could have been fun.